Blog 4. About co-dependency and anxious attachment style.

There's a big misconception about codependency that being limited only to separation issues in relationships but it’s really an umbrella term since there are so many other forms and definitions that fall under the common category. while I never had any issues with codependency in romantic relationships, I did have a complex co-dependency situation within my family relationships.

 I think it would be really helpful for you to read about anxious attachment styles as a refresher to remind yourself how you operate in the world sometimes, both consciously and unconsciously.  If you’re worried about your codependent traits and habits resurfacing, I think it’s an urgent message from your inner self that there's something within you that you need to heal. In my case, having an anxious attachment style often means you're thinking about the relationship way more than the other person, which for me means I end up emotionally investing myself very quickly. Anxious attachment styles tend to be so focused on other people and their needs, but seldom focus on themself and their own needs, this has been affecting my life a great deal without me realizing it. The good part is that I've now understood more about my actions when I meet someone.

Recognizing your attachment pattern can help you better understand your strengths and vulnerabilities in a relationship, as well as learning about the options for change. you can achieve a ‘secure attachment’ by healing past wounding. healing will look like: learning to be assertive in expressing your emotional needs and setting healthy boundaries. 

Lastly, with healing, comes accepting yourself and seeing others as humans with faults too. Through the words and actions of others, we can learn much about ourselves by observing how we react to them. Having and give you self love and healing isn’t easy work, but it’s worth it in the end. 

  

Blog 3. The importance of early childhood education.

When I chose to study pedagogy in early childhood education I did not think I would find so much learning, about children, about families, even about society in general. 

I realized that a career in early childhood can be very rewarding, as it provides the opportunity to influence and shape the lives of young children and their families. Early childhood education equips children with the skills and capacity to be effective and engaged learners through school and beyond. It is an important time in children’s lives because it is when they first learn how to interact with others, including peers, teachers, and parents, and also begin to develop interests that will stay with them throughout their lives.

The UNESCO says early childhood care and education is more than preparation for primary school. It aims at the holistic development of a child’s social, emotional, cognitive, and physical needs in order to build a solid and broad foundation for lifelong learning and wellbeing.  Has the possibility to nurture caring, capable and responsible future citizens. 

It’s a common misperception that early childhood education is only about learning basic skills. It’s so much more than that, It’s a time when children learn critical social and emotional skills, and a partnership is formed between the child, their parents, and the teacher. When this is done successfully, it lays the groundwork for it to continue throughout the child’s education.

Also, another thing that I love about this career is learning new things, working with children is a huge learning experience. No one child is the same and even though some of the things you cover in your qualifications can seem a bit outdated (like theories, etc.), it doesn’t mean you can’t take on a new perspective towards them. So there is always so much to learn

Blog 2. The best concert ever (●＾o＾●)

Hii everyone, today I am going to talk about the best concert ever in my life because I love to remember about this moment. It was Radiohead's long-awaited return to our country, after 9 years. In that night Radiohead closed its Latin American tour with an impeccable concert on the Athletic Track of the Estadio Nacional. On April 11, 2018, around 9:00 p.m., the stage of the Estadio was completely illuminated, and the cloudy sky of Santiago helped the atmosphere that was beginning to be generated.

The show was brilliant, 26 songs in the repertory and the atmosphere was electric with what I think is the best, and longest concert I've ever been. On that day, head banging on some awesome tunes, dancing with my friend and her sister, surrounded by more fans enthusiast. I realise that there are so many things in this world, and it would be a sad thing to miss out on them, not to experience them first hand and then reminisce those moments in the years to come.

(This photo is not mine haha but is from the concert)

Radiohead is one of my favorite bands because each member has something to give in each song. Radiohead is as close as I can get to who I truly am. For some reasons, it forces me to be honest with myself, probably more through the music than the lyrics. And I think they explore musical possibilities in a marvelous way, going out of the main path, forging their own sound. They have a complexity in their music that is so raw and yet processed. If you really get down in to the sound and feel of their music and listen to the backing tracks and not just the straight up front tracks, then is incredibly stimulating and amazing. The feeling that is brings out to me are so real because when lyrics are so abstract, you tend to give you own meaning to them. ♥(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

Blog n°1. A country I would like to visit!⸜(｡˃ᴗ˂ )

Hi everyone! Well, I was thinking about which country would I like to go to and I have a list of my top favorite countries because I can’t really decide which of these places would like to visit more so… I put it in random order. ꈍᴗꈍ

The first one is Japan because I’m really fascinated by the culture and food <3. I really want to explore many cities like Tokyo, Shibuya, and Kyoto. I’ve investigated this country and I like it so much because they’ve preserved their civilization, like the traditional buildings, art, landscapes, music, and at the same time progressed quite well. I would like to go in the cherry blossom season. Must be wonderful in spring.୨ʚĭɞ୧﹕ 

   

The second one is India, and the reason is their history and food. I’ve always been fascinated by the history of Hinduism and its impacts on other areas in Asia. I just love the architecture of those ancient buildings, and the food it is so exotic and to many people in India, it is vegetarian!

 

And the final country is not just a country, but rather it's a whole continent, Latin America…well I’m Latin American but I have never visited the other countries of this continent like Argentina, Peru, Bolivia, Colombia, etc. And I would like to visit and study in one of these countries because for my is very important to know our Latin American community and territory, for understand us in many ways, not just for the architecture or food, rather like for the culture and civilization of one of us.